Wednesday 12 October 2016

So who goes to a swinger clubs like Mingles?

So, if you take a look in your local bar or restaurant, remove any under 25’s from the scene and that’s what our members look like. They come from all kinds of backgrounds, all kinds of jobs and have all kinds of fantasies!  Here's a look at some of the members at Mingles!

Sarah (34) & Bob (46) - Couple
Bob and Sarah have been together about 6 years and recently got married both for the second time, Bob has two grown up children and Sarah has 3 children who live with them. They had never had any experience of the lifestyle prior to visiting Mingles, but were curious about the lifestyle and came along very nervous.

Sarah likes to dress up very sexy in revealing outfits and Bob is always dressed smartly, he loves seeing other people admiring his wife. They never played with any other couples to start with but were always a good laugh at the bar and Sarah was often the life and sole of the dance floor. After coming to the club quite regularly for a few months Sarah started to explore her Bi-Sexual side and played with a few other ladies while Bob watched.

Their confidence grew with each visit and now they are exploring soft swapping with other couples, they also enjoy having sex together in the lockable room as with teenagers at home privacy is sometimes an issue.

Michelle (25) - Single Female
Michelle is a single female and amazed us when she walked through the door for the first time. She instantly felt at home and very confident and was walking around the club almost naked within about two hours of being there (much to the enjoyment of everyone else).

Very few have the confidence to do that, especially as a single female, but the nice part about the lifestyle there is very little judgement or jealousy of others, it is a very accepting and respectful environment and of course safe and secure, we even walk our single females back to the car park at the end of the night.

Chris (35) - Single Male
Chris is divorced and doesn’t really have time for a relationship due to long hours spent working away a lot, but when he is home he regularly attends our club as the main part of his social life. 

Chris is laid back and friendly and has made many friends which often means there is a single lady or couple that ask him to join them upstairs, as well as invitations to other events and parties outside of the club.

Samantha (49) & Adrian (51) - Couple
Samantha and Adrian were childhood sweethearts meeting when they were just 17 & 15, they have been married for 27 years and have been in the lifestyle for about 8 years. It was Samantha who had only ever slept with Adrian decided that it would be fun to widen their horizons and they got into the lifestyle by visiting a club.

They are now very experienced swingers and regularly go on swinging holidays and visit clubs with their friends, they usually bring a few friends with them and are always happy for new people to join their circle to socialise and often join in the fun as well. 

Please note some details have been changed to protect identities,