Welcome to the Mingles blog.
WARNING - This blog contains an adult topic, and therefore we would advise that it is only suitable reading for people over the age of 18.
The purpose of this blog is to provide information on the UK adult lifestyle, otherwise know as swinging. We will be looking at swingers clubs, swinging sites, the lifestyle in general, advice for new couples and singles entering the scene as well as hopefully clearing up some of the myths.
We aim to provide positive information, opinions, advice and stories for people looking to join the scene, interested in knowing more, or those already in the lifestyle. We will always welcome discussion and comments from others but would ask the judgement of people in the lifestyle be left elsewhere, we are not here to judge, only to discuss and advise.
Swinging isn't for everyone, however we
should all respect others relationship and lifestyle choices. We sometimes may not
agree with them, but that doesn't make them wrong, those choices may be just wrong for
you.
Swinging in the UK is on the rise, as are the amount of swingers clubs which is great for anyone wishing to meet like-minded adults, find friendships, enjoy the huge social side of swinging and fulfil fantasies only ever dreamed of before. There are also countless swinging websites where you can add a profile, and search for other couples / singles and then arrange to meet up, make friends, socialise and potentially "play" as well.
As divorce rates rise, and couples seek thrills and sexual experiences outside of the monogamous and more traditional relationships, swinging allows partners to share their innermost sexual desires and allows them to share them with the one they love and are committed to. Swinging in the main, allows for trust, honesty, transparency and couples to truly be themselves with each other.
Swinging or being in the lifestyle, is a great opportunity for couples to enhance an already great sex life, build trust, be themselves and fulfil fantasies they might not otherwise be able to act out on their own, swinging also attracts single ladies and guys, who don't necessarily want an emotional or long term relationship, but love sex and again have fantasies they wish to fulfil. Swingers Clubs, we believe, also provide a very safe environment particularly for single women, who otherwise may put themselves in danger meeting single men alone for social and sexual experiences.
A little background on us:
Jason and I met in November 2009 and started swinging 3 years ago, we started out in a club, and have loved the club scene ever since. In August 2013, we started converting an empty building we owned and opened Mingles in Colchester, Essex, in 2014. We built the club with another couple (swinging friends) over the period of a year in our spare time, and then opened in August 2014. In January 2015, our business partners unfortunately had to leave the business due to other work and personal reasons, but we will be forever grateful for their hard work, passion, commitment and friendship. It goes without saying that Mingles wouldn't be what it is today without them!
We hope you find this blog, interesting, informative and fun too!
Rebecca & Jason xxx
