So, if you take a look in your local bar or restaurant, remove any under 25’s from the scene and that’s what our members look like. They come from all kinds of backgrounds, all kinds of jobs and have all kinds of fantasies! Here's a look at some of the members at Mingles!
Sarah (34) & Bob (46) - Couple
Bob and Sarah have been together about 6 years and
recently got married both for the second time, Bob has two grown up children
and Sarah has 3 children who live with them. They had never had any experience
of the lifestyle prior to visiting Mingles, but were curious about the
lifestyle and came along very nervous.
Sarah likes to dress up very sexy in revealing outfits
and Bob is always dressed smartly, he loves seeing other people admiring his
wife. They never played with any other couples to start with but were always a
good laugh at the bar and Sarah was often the life and sole of the dance floor.
After coming to the club quite regularly for a few months Sarah started to
explore her Bi-Sexual side and played with a few other ladies while Bob
watched.
Their confidence grew with each visit and now they are
exploring soft swapping with other couples, they also enjoy having sex together
in the lockable room as with teenagers at home privacy is sometimes an issue.
Michelle (25) - Single Female
Michelle is a single female and amazed us when she walked
through the door for the first time. She instantly felt at home and very
confident and was walking around the club almost naked within about two hours
of being there (much to the enjoyment of everyone else).
Very few have the confidence to do that, especially as a
single female, but the nice part about the lifestyle there is very little
judgement or jealousy of others, it is a very accepting and respectful
environment and of course safe and secure, we even walk our single females back
to the car park at the end of the night.
Chris (35) - Single Male
Chris is divorced and doesn’t really have time for a
relationship due to long hours spent working away a lot, but when he is home he
regularly attends our club as the main part of his social life.
Chris is laid back and friendly and has made many friends
which often means there is a single lady or couple that ask him to join them
upstairs, as well as invitations to other events and parties outside of the
club.
Samantha (49) & Adrian (51) - Couple
Samantha and Adrian were childhood sweethearts meeting
when they were just 17 & 15, they have been married for 27 years and have
been in the lifestyle for about 8 years. It was Samantha who had only ever slept
with Adrian decided that it would be fun to widen their horizons and they got
into the lifestyle by visiting a club.
They are
now very experienced swingers and regularly go on swinging holidays and visit
clubs with their friends, they usually bring a few friends with them and are
always happy for new people to join their circle to socialise and often join in
the fun as well.
Please note some details have been changed to protect identities,